The tools, stories & insights to help you return to you. The weekly reset for burned-out but brilliant minds.
Reading time: 3 minutes
This week's hot topic π₯
This week we're talking about why your downtime has become another to-do list.
Hey Reader
When did rest become another thing to optimise?
Yoga to improve flexibility. Journalling to process emotions. Meditation to reduce stress. Even your hobbies have targets now. Everything has to move you forward, rest included.
But your nervous system does not recognise the difference between productive rest and actual rest. It just knows: are you doing, or are you being?
The kind of rest that actually restores you is the kind that serves no purpose. The kind that would embarrass you if someone asked what you did with your afternoon.
Three episodes of something mindless. Lying in the garden doing absolutely sod all. Scrolling without learning anything.
You are allowed to rest in ways that do not improve you. Without making it mean something. Without turning it into content. Without calling it self-care.
Sometimes rest is just rest. And that is enough.
With care, Aimee
The Glow Zone - your FREE community
SIGN UP NOW OPEN π
I have been asking the women on my waitlist what actually brought them to the door.
63% said they had hit a wall and were trying to figure out who they are outside of their job and their family. 38% said they knew something needed to change but could not put their finger on what. And some of the words that came back stopped me in my tracks.
I have been performing fine for so long I have forgotten what actually fine feels like.
I am doing well on paper but I feel empty underneath it.
Finding me again.
If any of that landed, this is for you.
I am opening the Glow Zone. A free community for capable women who are carrying more than they are letting on. Real tools, honest conversations, and women who get it because they are living it too. No motivational quotes. No people selling things. Just a space that is genuinely yours.
The link is below.
βSIGN UP HEREβ
See you on the inside.
Aimee x