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This week we're talking about getting so good at self development you start to... well.. hate it.
Hey Reader
There is a sneaky thing that happens when you get good at personal development. You turn it into another performance metric. Another way to prove your worth. Another box to tick.
And the question worth asking is not whether you are doing enough inner work. It is what you are afraid would happen if you stopped trying to fix yourself.
Sit with that one. Is it uncomfortable?
The shift is not about adding more tools. It is about noticing when the tools have become a way of staying busy instead of staying honest. When understanding something intellectually is easier than actually feeling it.
You are not behind. You are not doing it wrong. And your worth has nothing to do with how well you perform your own healing.
One thing to try this week: next time you catch yourself in self-improvement mode, just pause and ask - am I doing this from love, or from the belief that something is wrong with me?
That question alone is the work.
With care, Aims
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